How do you know she was a mean girl? Kirsten was stabbed by Protti after she was chased by him back to her house after she got out of the car because she believed something was amiss. Thats a win win. But would a real student please come forward and reveal yourself.. Those who say Kirsten was a Mean Girl clearly didnt know her, or she didnt like them with (good Reasons). Look inwards and think with consideration before you speak. They were good about making you feel like you didnt belong. Real class comes from decent human beings who have respect for others, and treating others the way that they want to be treated. Youre no better than Bernadette haters as well. I hear she was Caddy and Stuck up, I dont even know if thats true, but she wasnt a Bully. If there was people in need, in the Bobbies we helped those people.. if someone didnt have nice clothes we were theyre Secret Santa at Christmas time If someone wasnt as smart, (we didnt knock them down), we helped them Kirsten did to,(so did Bernadette) In fact, Bernadette wanted to help the poor. I isolate now due to the fact women have betrayed me so badly. She was friendly, but kind of Arrogant as well. [5] He thought that he was witnessing a fistfight, but in fact Protti had stabbed Costas five times with a butcher knife and fled. She has Kirstens demeanor. I wasnt crazy about Kirsten Carrie, Christine and the rest, I knew how She is In her 50 s now, thats if shes alive. She and D were always cracking jokes and having fun. I hope shes not sick esp. She did have the cutest clothes of all time and knew it. Her family were upper-middle class, not multi millionaires. I know beauty is all a matter of perception, not that it matters but in no universe would Bernadette be considered better looking. Protti legally changed her name and departed to another location to start a new family following the traumatic incident. True to the actual events, Angela idolizes Stacy and although she is accomplished academically, she just can't get herself "into the club," aka the cheer squad or yearbook staff. Kirsten had a good heart though. We bought a do up property. Upper middle class at least. Shut up already and get a life. That dont make her a terrible person cause she hand probaly only a handful she did t like. BTW, Bernadette was not bullied or the lonely girl the movie portrayed her, (she had lots of friends) was popular So you that said Kirsten bullied her, get the facts straight. Dont matter, been what 37 years. That still wasnt Kirstens fault. I dont buy into the lesbian theory. You obviously are very contradicting since from gathering what the Hollywood movie has told you if Kirsten was truly a witch, then, Bernadette was a bigger idiot since she wanted to befriend such a person to begin with. Vanessa I agree I knew both girls. Specialties Specialty Family Nurse Practitioner A family nurse practitioner is a nurse who completed a graduate degree in. Several on the site say Kirsten was Sweet Cute and Funny. I had just got out of high school at that time from north of the bay area Yet it hit us all so close to home the horror of it seemed to change everything in a way all those years ago What brought me here is my own grief at the unsolved stabbing murder of my girlfriend And she resembled Kirsten in appearance and likely even more in personality I pray for Kirstens soul and her family What they have gone through the last 37 years the neverending nightmare it is literally Room 101 Something torn out of you removed an amputee Tortured by the phantom limb You can feel where it was what it was like to have it remember it but its gone. Angela Delvecchio in NY - Address & Phone Number | Whitepages Kirsten was adorable. . Not saying she was an Angel, Im sure she said something to hurt Someones feelings, who hasnt! So classy and dead on. Her sister at the bank dont discuss Bernadette, or discloses her whereabouts, she just says Bernadette dont wish to be located by former classmates, friends or co workers, she has a very private life now and wants to be left alone. She was Strange to. Absolutely not. How is obsessing over this going to solve the problem? They just had their own group of girls. So yes it sucks to be bullied, but that is no excuse for any kind of physical action. She killed her cause she was afraid Kirsten would target her as a Weirdo now shes labeled as a MURDERER So sad her life was shortened. I thought Kirsten was a very pretty little thing. That could hurt much more than death. Angela DelVecchio - Temple University - Reading, Pennsylvania, United I never wished for Kirsten to die like she did, that was horrible. We know Bernadette has issues, you that like her and defend her have Issues as well. Born Today Most Popular Celebs Most Popular Celebs Celebrity News. You want to defend your friend and so you should but once you start calling names and trampling over the comments of others you single yourself out as a bully. There were a lot of girls at Miramonte they didnt like or fit in, they ran them all out, not just Nancy, she wasnt alone, neither was Joanna, but they act like they were the only victims there. She didnt give examples because she wasnt bullied by Kirsten. Berit and Bob Costas live in Hawaii. I wasnt in the Popular, but those girls still talked to me and was friendly with me. No one is killed without a reason. No right to Murder a person. I know this because I was there in the same class of Kirsten and Bernadette. She had a sort of ombre style in fact which was kind of weird in the 80s, but cutting edge. Protti didnt get a short sentence because she claimed to have been picked on. They had Bernadette as a suspect and only give her a lie detector test? She fit in and was as popular as Kirstens 2 close friends (Diane and Stacy), Bernadette wanted more. Former Receptionist Telephone Operator at Lane Insurance, Inc. Former ENTREPRUNEUR at DYNAMAXX International. She said Bernadette was kind of Snooty also. What? Read the article, read more on the actual case, stop judging real people based on a low-budget lifetime movie. Note: ClickAmericana.com features authentic historical information, and is not intended to represent current best practices on any topic, particularly with regard to health and safety, but also in terms of outdated cultural depictions and social values. Yes, I have seen the movie. I never imagined she would literally kill Kirsten, cause Bernadette was so quiet and her demeanor said nothing about her being a killer at all. Angela Delvecchio | Backyard Football Wiki | Fandom You need help. It was full of middle class and upper- middle class families. Were not sympathizing with you, (grow up and get over it) Theyre not going to beg you to come, and if you dont want to be found cause your life was miserable, were not really interested in finding you and apologizing. She slaughtered the girl. Kristens parents are right the story as told doesnt make any sense. Bernadette, as described would have known that Kirsten would have thought it weird to be driving around with a butcher knife. That Dee if it is who I think she was always in trouble and never listened. She was nice to her friends though. Angela Should Have Been Caught Sooner When Angela cleans off the knife with which she stabbed Stacy, she does so by running it under water and wiping it with a towel, leaving both her and Stacy's DNA all over it, the towel and in the drain. Not saying Kirsten and Missy were Saints, but we all Bully and been Bullied. We werent in the same grade I was one year ahead of her she acted as if she was better. This is what makes her an easy choice every single time. She was good at that. One of her relatives I asked how to get ahold of her, and they said she dont want to be bothered with anyone at all from her past, coworkers, former schoolmates and former friends, outside of family she dont want to talk to anyone. Some say she was Stuck up, but not a Bully. If you want to know what is wrong with her get on her YouTube channel where she makes pies. She did have money, dont let that other Mats tell you any different. Kirsten was the real life of the Party! Bernadette even tried to point her finger at Joanna as the one who killed Kirsten. She would of grown out of that. Thisb isnt about Columbine, its about the Kirsten Costas case. The alternative rock band Marcy Playgroundrecorded a song called "Death of a Cheerleader" for their 2003 album Marcy Playground 3. 3 decades later thats ridiculous. Murder of Kirsten Costas - Wikipedia The knife was her sisters for making lunch it was even in the movie that way. It was only a matter of time before she d get caught so she came forth. So the Mats either youre Berns Sisters, Berns BFF, or even Bern herself. Shes pretty much out of the picture, her YouTube gets messages from (Kirsten from Heaven) thats sick whoevers doing that. You are here. she threatened to tell everyone at school the next day, she didnt tell Alex Arnold ( the Man who drove her home) again it was to insane he probaly would of freaked and she didnt want to scare him with the details. Do I believe Kirsten was a Mean girl (bully) not at all, I believe she had those she didnt like and may of been Snooty towards that got on her nerves. I think Kirsten probably threatened to tell everybody their bizarre conversation in the car that night. Your eyes are deceiving you. Telephone: (734)763-0002. adelvecc@umich.edu. She was not any Chris Hargensen in Carrie, or Regina George in Mean Girls or anything like that, she was totally down to Earth and engaging from what I was told. It was a strange time growing up around religious freaks. Maria The people implying that Kristen had it coming, or whoever else blamed her parents, are, in life, the jealous Bernadette types. So I would say to any bully, we all have our weaknesses,. Maybe LP doesnt want to be the Life of the party. Bernadette Im telling you was well liked and a good Student got good grades and was in with popular kids, cause she was smart. She was friendly and outgoing. The movie did not do justice to Kirstens memory as it seemed to blame the victim rather than the killer. She didnt hate anyone. You obviously didnt know Bernadette to describe her as Sweet. She was given birth in a luxurious home by her parents, Arthur and Berit Costas, and she had a brother named Peter who was raised in the unremarkable suburb of Orinda in the state of California. (Yes at times) Kirsten teased Bernadette, but they were still mutually acquainted Bernadette never could figure out why she thought she was a Bullied failure. As for LF aka LP she just disappeared off the map somehow. Room 2160 400NIB. Kirsten really wasnt big enough to be a Bully and she was more into Social things and School Spirit than bullying others. She kissed the popular girls butt in order to be popular. She clearly wasnt happy with them and their old, unfashionable selves either, adding that they didnt give her, their 6th child, the attention she so desperately wanted. That part of LPs life is over with I guess. I feel very sad for both sides. Alexander and Mary Jane Arnold, who live in Moraga, had been playing cribbage with neighbors. In the meantime, the girl driving the Pinto had quickly parked and slid out of her own car. Poor bernadette seemed very vulnerable and in need of help. The girl with the football players heard she was ran out on her ear and laughed out of there to. Or do you mean that you think she was a fragile human being before she brutally murdered Kirsten? Did Kirsten deserve to die over it. She could block it out of her mind (her words). My kid knows better than to bully others. The only freak in this tragic story is Bernadette. Maybe it wasnt a big national story at the time, and was more of a California Bay area story (Im from Illinois). She didnt give examples because she wasnt bullied by Kirsten. Any more update regarding Bernadette and the family members of both girls? Protti lured Costas from her home with a false story about a party, to which the wanna-be would give her pretty friend a ride. Others suffer more cause they experience the loss. I dont think she was any worse than any other teenage girl by any means. She didnt like Nancy and a few others. So this murderer just gets off free after 8 years and gets to live her life because (somebody picked on her)????? Especially someone who not only blames the murder victim for her brutal murder, but also blames her innocent parents? For murder! When Kirsten Costas was found dead, she was a popular and gorgeous cheerleader. Shes on the East Coast last I heard, I hear shes fine health wise, and some say she wasnt feeling well awhile back, not sure why, shes mellowed out a lot through the years. By the time theyre 23 they grow out of it completely most ususally. It doesnt sound as if Kirsten bullied Bernadette, other than the one comment about her ski gear. Bernadette was nice to, but she had hidden obsessions. A Murderer, So Kirsten was a Snob, a lot of ppl are, the way she died,was Horrific. To the fellow classmates of 1986 Miramonte, so sorry if your World crumbled cause it wasnt meant to be that way, but you got to know that it was t any picnic for Bernadette as well, and if she could set time back and do all over, she would of left the situation with Kirsten alone to start with. And not a fuckn psycho. If you were a no body she didnt roll with you. I cant tell you if every single one of them get together, I know lots do. A lot of girls are Conceited, dont mean they deserved to be Murdered. Im sure she dont really like Bernadette, and she wouldnt go out to dinner with her, or have her over for dinner or go places with her, and welcome her with open arms. To a degree Bernadette struggled harder than most of her friends, she wasnt as Popular as they were and was a little of an Outcast, but Tolerated. "[3] When Costas could not reach her parents by telephone, Alex Arnold drove her home, noticing that the Protti family's Pinto was following them. What was the most heart wrenching about this was a classmate girl was blamed and attacked by certain people for killing Kirsten, obviously she didnt. Why are you victim shaming ? Bernadette went to private grade school called St. Perpetuas in Lafayette Ca. That Saturday evening, Kirstens parents and brother left to attend a potluck dinner for Peters Little League team. I think she had a crush on Kirsten and was terrified of Kirsten telling everyone she was a lesbian. My comments arent gossip. Teen girls are all like Kirsten was described, dont see how she was worse than any other teen girl around. There have been a couple people in my youth that I thought were extremely mean to me. Sounds like her parents Shouldve did some actual parenting and taught her how to have respect for other people. You need to stop defending yourself and own up to the damage you did. Or someone who stares at you constantly, you got a problem doing that. Bernadette was clearly very sick and disturbed, yet you appear to be minimizing or even excusing Kirstens murder by referring to Bernadette as a fragile human being, and writing Society in the richest places raise their children to be obnoxious and unbearable little freaks who will at some point push a normal person to the brink. No one wanted to believe that the killer came from Orinda, the lush Northern California suburb where Kirsten lived. I have been watching The Cheerleader Murder on my iPhone for a few years now, and one of the lines was, Bernadette was part of the in crowd, but she didnt see it! It weirded Kirsten out. She was full of life. Defining Feature: Klutzy, younger sister of Tony who is also an Italian mobster stereotype. Can you give examples of Kirsten degrading others and thinking she is better than everyone? 5.0 Explains conditions and treatments. Angela Delvecchio's Instagram, Twitter & Facebook on IDCrawl Cause Bernadette was stuck up to, or thats how Bernadette appeared. as bad as she wanted her friendship. Kirsten was Cute and funny from my Standpoint. So she didnt like everybody who does? Society in the richest places raise their children to be obnoxious and unbearable little freaks who will at some point push a normal person to the brink,so whatever happens is something they are a part of as well as the person they have pushed. Lemme tell all of you a little something because I lived and breathed the entire lifestyle of growing up in orinda and knew both Bernadette and kirsten. Kids are incredibly nasty and cruel in high school because their parents raise them that way in their own attempt to play the snobs of society. Additionally, the Bernadette character was portrayed as sweet and innocent, while a sexy twenty-something Tori Spelling played the part of the 15 year old Kirsten. It's just another notch in your gun belt. As for the Shoes one time comment. People who are spouting off on Kirsten are either Rejects, or friends or family of (Bernadette). I knew Kirsten she was funny and adorable. What are you talking about?? But unfortunately for her all she was taught was whats the best material Possessions, popularity and the look at me attitude. I had an English class with Kirsten and her friends, we were all put in pairs in order to read off as part of a project, Kirsten and them just acted as though I was invisible and everyone in our group (but me) got to read a part. So she didnt like Joanna or Nancy, she isnt Obligated to, or owe them anything. Bernadette was a Snob also, she only wanted to hang with the incrowd, if you were nothing she didnt talk to you anymore than she had to. Its possible they forgave her and moved on. I only talked to And she killed her because she was jealous and that she would have been humiliuated if Kirsten told people at school that she was admiring her. Well hes probaly no better. Nancy and Joanna? Costas' parents vehemently opposed Protti's release. She couldnt give any more examples because there was no more examples which is why there is still no clear reason why she killed Kirsten. As I wrote in a previous comment to you above rupaul/joy, if there was evidence of Kirsten bullying Bernadette, she would have given examples which would have strengthened her case and possibly portrayed her as a sympathetic character. I live minutes from Columbine Highschool and you have absolutely no clue. On the day after the murder that took place in June of 1984, rumours were prevalent in many locations. One person said Missy was mean and a bully and she bullied them bad well that person and you are the same, Justifying Murder cause someone was mean, or Stuck up. This whole story is just disgusting. Not when she robbed a girl in the Spring of her life, and robbed her of a Family, graduating from High School, and Marrying a nice man, and whatever she planned to become in the future, Bernadette took it all from her. And the color pictures of the school are photographs I took. Whether the murder was premeditated or not, no one can really determine that, still a young girl died at the hands of Bernadette Protti, and Bernadette will have to live with that the rest of her life. She looked like a nice person that had a good life ahead of her. Angela S Delvecchio - Nurse Practitioner, Bar Harbor ME - HealthCare4PPL Well 1st off Kirstens home on Orchard Rd was nice, but no Mansion like the Movie portrays a nice Ranchstyle home. Kirsten and Bernadette were both well off. This makes sense since shows like Beverly Hills 90210 were all the rage. Also, HELL NO Bernadette was not cuter, or prettier then Kirsten. That Bullying was a Copout. Even if Kirsten was a Snot, she would of grown out of it long before now. I believe she made a fool out of herself begging and crying to Kirsten about how she feels no one likes her ( which wasnt the true case then) and was kept repeatedly begging to Kirsten to be her (friend) and made a complete fool out of herself and it just freaked Kirsten out and scared her.

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